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With the French and Anglo cultures tending to differ there are undoubtedly a few clashes when it comes to jumping into bed with one another. There are no moral hang-ups about sex in France, she says. There's no link to morality," says Mazaurette. Here we have sex because it's a cool activity. If something physical is happening, just enjoy it". Basically it's pretty straightforward, she says.
Mazaurette's philosophy is that too much romance is a waste of time and builds up unnecessary pressure. Sex first, get to know each other after. I would never wait for a second date, that would frustrate me because it would mean the guy has put up barriers between us. If you do it right a French woman will go to bed with you.
Not necessarily says the colomnist. I don't want to have to wait for sex and play the game if I have a crush on someone. I don't want to have to wait until the end of the evening for sex, I want to go home immediately. Do the French go in for that like us Anglos do? But Mazaurette warns against trying to prove them wrong, at first anyway. We just want to be sure that you are nice and that you care if we come. Don't act like you are in a porno. Mazaurette says let the language of passion do the talking.
The pleasure has to be shared says Mazaurette. It's implying that he should be rewarded just for speaking to you. In France you never owe sex to anyone". You've been told. Some people are completely different. You wouldn't go to bed with them all the time knowing you are going to be disappointed. I had something like that with a guy and I just didn't like his smell, because I'm extremely sensitive to smell. Hmmm, think again. That also means deleting your profile from dating sites and once you've stopped using condoms then you bloody well better not be sleeping around, she says.
However, later on in a relationship things can change. Do the French really go in for threesomes? And since our sex life is so linked with our idea of privacy, we don't like to share that much.